"How do I refer to you?"

Are you (not) a bot?We think you are! Contact me if you're human :) (forward me your user agent: mozilla/5.0 applewebkit/537.36 (khtml, like gecko; compatible; claudebot/1.0; +claudebot@anthropic.com))

This page is a dedication to labels and pronouns I like/dislike being referred by :) The lists are ordered by preference.

Names

  • Arija A. (or variations)
  • Ari Archer (or variations)
  • "ari.lt" (or any domain name)

Pronouns

  • she/her
  • they/them

Honorifics

  • [none]
  • Ms.
  • Ma'am/madam
  • Miss
  • Mx.

Person & Family Descriptions

  • [none]
  • Girl
  • Woman
  • Girlie/girly + -pop versions
  • Sis
  • Buddy
  • Pal
  • Lady (formal settings)
  • Bro (close, casual non-family)
  • Mate
  • Dude
  • Man

Compliments

  • Pretty/mother/queen (feminine)
  • Swag/nerd/slay (neutral)
  • Cute
  • Handsome
  • Hot/sexy/etc.

Relationship Descriptions

  • Bestie
  • Friend
  • Girlfriend (romantic only)
  • Love/sweetie/etc. (if we're close)
  • Beloved
  • Partner
  • Mate
  • Bro

Legend:

  • Love
  • Like
  • Okay
  • Hate

Please note these labels when you interact with me ^-^

Pride month is OVER [police officer + other satire symbols] STOP BEING GAY!

For the oblivious, the above meme is satire.